Friday, December 5, 2008

Messages - 12/5/08

I was listening to my future daughter-in-law's show on Blog Talk Radio yesterday morning and she and her co-host Kate had a guest on the show who is a medium (Lizzy Starr).  Usually the guests who come on don't or won't do readings on the air, but apparently Jen's husband who died in 2004 came in very strongly and a reading broke out for Jen, and then for another woman who works on the show and then for me.  Jen actually asked the medium if there was someone there for me as I had suffered a loss in May.  Jen also said that since coming into David's family she has learned what being in a family really means as she feels so loved and accepted and already considers me the Mother she wished she'd have had.  I was very, very touched by that.

There were some things the medium said that I didn't understand until later.  She said my husband was saying something about curlers, did I have curlers in my hair?  Well no.  However later I remembered that just this week I was wondering if I still had curlers or whether I'd thrown them out and then I found them under the sink in the bathroom.  Then she said something about were we high school sweethearts.  Of course that wouldn't have been possible because of the difference in our ages, but I think she was just misinterpreting that.   Warren always called me his child bride and I'm not sure if that colloquialism is used in the U.K. as well as here.  She told me that I wear his ring and that makes him happy.  I wear his wedding ring on my left hand between my wedding band and my engagement ring.  The big, big, big validation that I was getting message from Warren was when she told me "he says to tell you he's building you a house."  Well I just lost it right there.  I have a thing for houses that are two stories with a wrap around porch.  The kind of house I always wanted but never had.  Before he died he said he was going to build my "two stories and a porch" on the other side.  No one knew that but he and I. 

Jen had also gotten a message for me the night before that but was afraid to tell me.  She doesn't usually get information like that and I think she was a little freaked out.  He told her that the other night when I thought I'd felt someone touch my cheek, it was him (and I did feel that by the way) and also he wants me to stop crying myself to sleep as he is fine.

That was a lot to take in in one day.   I'm happy/sad.

Jen is bringing so much new energy into the lives of this family.  Its like she flipped a switch that has energized us in so many ways.  She and my daughter are becoming fast friends and now Jenny is doing paranormal investigations with Jen and Dave and the rest of their team.  We're meeting so many interesting people through her.  She has truly been a blessing to us.

There are TV documentaries in the works for next year and a movie too.  I will let you know when things will be aired in case you're interested.

19 comments:

  1. Where do I even begin? I feel blessed in so many ways! I have a very broken support system within my family, I know they do the best they can but it is very dysfunctional. I arrived within this family, my new family and it has been one of the most amazing, beautiful experience...I am the one that has been blessed!

    Jen and I have so much fun together...we are both Jenny's after all!

    Yesterday was amazing, emotional and I think I have listened to that show a dozen times I think. I have cried with each time too. I know what you mean about the happy/sad feelings...it is so overwhelming because the validation she gave us was so strong.

    Cheryl you have given me so much since I became a part of the family, your love, kindness and the open arms for not only me but the kids as well. I wanted to to give you something special and meaningful and I know Lizzy is the real deal, so I wanted her to help me give that to you. I was so happy that you got a message. I promise next time I get a message I will not hesitate to pass it along.

    Stuff like the other night freaks me out...lol!

    You and the family energize me!

    I love you Cheryl and I hope that maybe the messages are truly gifts of healing for both of us!

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  2. Cheryl, I'm so glad to hear that you had this reading... Jenny, it was incredibly thoughtful of you to think of Cheryl in that way. ;)

    You guys are so awesome I can't wait to see you again!

    Cheryl.... ;)

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  3. I'm just sitting here with tears in my eyes. How lovely for all of you, how good the medium must feel about it, how very very wonderful that you have each other and all the blessings yet to come.

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  4. And Kat wants more of that lasagna. lol...

    Mom about the house.. and I believe you and I have talked about the type of house we both like before. I keep passing a house on my way home from work everyday and everytime I see it, I think there it is. "The house". It's not for sale.. YET.. but if it were, I'd try to convince you to buy it lol. I'd imagine it would be a little out of my price range. I'll have to take a picture for you on my way home or to work one day. Mom and I, independently have both wanted that same type of house. I dont know if you just programmed the thought into my head from an early age or I came to the same conclusion. Maybe it reminds us of a house we once had in a former life or something.

    Jen, I have been warned by several people in my family now that if I screw this up with you, I'm in deep trouble lol. So apparently my family likes you better than me. lol.. So welcome to the club. You still have another half of the family to meet.

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  5. I'm so glad you got the validation and messages that you needed. I hope it's comforting to you and that the happy replaces the sad very soon. Everyone is right, you are a very special person who spreads a unique love and warmth wherever you go and you deserve to be happy and whole again.

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  6. Ms Cheryl I know first hand the happiness and sadness that you feel with this reading. I also know first-hand the joy, the happiness, the energy and awe that comes along with Jennifer,,,she truly is a breathe of fresh air, she always knows the right things to say and when to say them.I felt your happiness and I know your tears....((((((Ms Cheryl))))).....can't wait to meet all of you in person soon...and heck after all of this talk about you making the best lasagna I'm wanting some of that too!!! LOL....

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  7. David read my mind... I must think too loudly!!! ;)

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  8. I'll take the story
    with the wrap-around porch
    Hopefully it has a view
    Have you thought about
    building same
    in Second Life?
    :>)

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  9. How wonderful to have a great addition to your family. I am happy for you all.

    I believe in paranormal phenomena. Another time I will tell my experience.


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  10. Bennett I'd like to hear about your experience some time.

    Tom, I haven't gotten into Second Life yet. The funny thing about the type of house I love, is that its totally impractical for where I am in life.

    Kat there is more lasagna in your future.

    Thanks ToniJ. I was so happy that you got a reading too. I look forward to meeting you in person. I'm sure you make Lasagna a lot better than I do.

    Thanks Sharon that's sweet.

    Dave I'm not buying anymore houses. I told you when I moved to the condo you'd be scraping my cold dead remains off the kitchen floor when I'm gone. LOL

    Thanks Jesa.

    Jen, what can I say, I love you girl.

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  11. Dave - be glad she has decided to croak in the kitchen....it will easier to clean up that floor than if she goes on the carpet.

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  12. Ooooh, bad Jenny! Are you feeling better?

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  13. Yes, I dragged myself out of bed around 6pm.

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  14. Oh Lawdy! Yep, I'm squeezin' myself into this family somehow.

    Cheryl, if you ever decide to move to Texas, just let me know. I have the perfect house for you. It's two story, wrap around porch on the lower level, balconies on the upper level that run the length of the house on opposite sides. Two bedrooms, three bathrooms. On the same piece of property, there is a three bedroom / two bath house in the same style, and a one bedroom/ two bath guest house. There's also a free-form beach style pool, a sun-room / pool house, and a man-made pond stocked with fish. The pond of fish are part of a thriving business. People pay to grab one of the canoes and go out on the pond to fish. The little lady that owns the property makes enough money off the fish business to keep her bills paid. Her family used to reside in the other homes on the property, but they've all passed on or moved away, so she's been trying to sell the place for a couple of years. You could move all your family onto the property, and since it sits on a ten acre lot, you'd all have plenty of room to live your lives without being too close ... or too far away from each other.

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  15. dejaviewstudio, I don't think I can afford that Texas spread on a retiree's income. Sounds nice though

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  16. Just wanted to stop by and thank you for helping Jennifer find the happiness she so deserves. It is so wonderful to see the smiles and hear the happiness in her words again. Just wanted to stop by and say a big THANK YOU to your family from one of Jennifer's Indiana friends!!

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  17. Thanks Janiem. We love having Jennifer in our family. She's brought smiles to us as well.

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