Thursday, May 21, 2009

At One Year - 5/21/09

Today marked the first anniversary of Warren's passing.  I got up at 3:45 a.m this morning so that I could light a candle at 4:00 a.m. and sit vigil in remembrance of everything; all the good and all the not so good things.  I talked to him and thanked him for being my husband and for the wonderful life we had together.  Then I told him it was time for me to move forward into whatever life has in store for me.  The vigil felt companionable.  I was not alone and at one point I felt someone stroke the ring finger on my left hand.

I leave you today with a few pictures from our wedding day.




 

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Hello Readers - 5/17/09


A few people still check in here from time to time I see. I will probably post something soon because Thursday marks the 1 year mark since Warren's passing. I've actually been doing a little better emotionally for the last couple of weeks.

I plan on making a trip out to the Pacific Northwest this summer to visit a friend and will go to Florida for a couple of weeks with Megan. I have to iron out the details of when, and who will watch my cat Max. I want him to be able to stay at home where he's comfortable. He is too old to be shuffled off to stay with relatives, especially relatives with other pets. He's a loner like me. He and I enjoy our quiet time together.

I'll deal with the health thing in the fall after Megan goes back to school.

Hope your weekend is going well.